Five Things I Wish Every Bride Knew About Weddings
Your wedding day is one of the most special days of your life. It’s filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable moments. As a photographer who’s been part of countless weddings, I’ve seen what makes the day truly magical, and what can add unnecessary stress. Here are five things I wish every bride knew to make their wedding day even more memorable and joyful.
1. The Day Will Fly By
Your wedding day will feel like it’s over in the blink of an eye. With so many emotions, moments, and people to enjoy, time moves quickly.
Why This Matters: This is why having a well-planned schedule and a trusted photographer is so important. We’ll ensure you have time to soak in the moments and capture everything that matters most.
Pro Tip: Plan moments to pause with your partner throughout the day, whether it’s a private first look or sneaking away for 5 minutes during the reception.
2. Take Time to Enjoy the Little Moments
Weddings are filled with big, emotional moments, but it’s often the small ones that stay with you.
Why This Matters: Whether it’s the look on your partner’s face during the vows, a quiet moment with your parents, or the laughter of your friends during the reception, these small moments make the day.
Pro Tip: Schedule time in your day to enjoy these moments without rushing. For example, plan extra time before walking down the aisle to breathe and take it all in.
3. Don’t Be Afraid to Delegate
Trying to handle every detail on your wedding day can lead to unnecessary stress. Remember, you don’t have to do it all yourself.
Why This Matters: Delegating tasks allows you to focus on enjoying the day while trusted friends, family, or vendors handle the details. Assign someone to manage small issues or keep the timeline on track so you can fully immerse yourself in the experience.
Pro Tip: Create a clear list of responsibilities and share it with your bridal party or a wedding coordinator ahead of time. This ensures everyone knows what to do without needing your input on the day.
4. The Photos Will Be One of the Only Lasting Things
When the day is over, your photos will be your most cherished keepsake.
Why This Matters: Investing in a photographer whose style you love is one of the best decisions you can make. Your photos should not only capture how everything looked but also how it felt.
Pro Tip: Discuss your must-have shots with your photographer ahead of time, like family portraits or that perfect sunset couple’s shot.
5. It’s Okay if Things Don’t Go Perfectly
This is the most important tip I have: even with meticulous planning, something might not go as expected. And that’s okay!
Why This Matters: The best weddings are about love and connection, not perfection. A small mishap can even turn into a cherished memory or a funny story to tell later.
Pro Tip: Focus on what truly matters: celebrating with your loved ones and marrying your partner. Everything else is secondary.
Conclusion
Your wedding day is uniquely yours, and it should be a reflection of your love story. By focusing on what matters most, letting go of perfection, and trusting the process, you’ll create a day filled with beautiful memories that you’ll treasure forever. Ready to make those memories last a lifetime? Let’s connect and create stunning photos to tell your story.
Bonus
Check out free wedding planning checklist in English from The Knot.
Ladda hem gratis checklista för bröllopsplanering på svenska från Bröllopsmagasinet.